25 phrases that mean someone is lying

 25 phrases that mean someone is lying God doesn’t like liars, either.(From "The Book of Genesis Illustrated by R. Crumb.")
Sometimes a speaker says things that sound honest but really mean the speaker is lying. Here are 25 of those phrases. Whenever the speaker says this… they mean this.

  1. "I hate to be the one to tell you this…"
    "I’m glad I’m the one who’s telling you."
  2. "With all due respect…"
    "I don’t respect you at all, and here’s why."
  3. "I hear what you’re saying…"
    "I don’t know what the hell you’re talking about."
  4. "I’m not a racist, but…"
    "I don’t want you to think I’m a racist when I say this horribly racist thing."
  5. "I’m not trying to hurt your feelings, but…"
    "Don’t judge me, but I’m going to hurt your feelings."
  6. "It’s not about the money, but…"
    "Of course it’s about the friggin’ money."
  7. "It really doesn’t matter to me, but…"
    "It matters a lot to me."
  8. "Confidentially…"
    "I’m telling you something I shouldn’t be telling you."
  9. "Honestly…"
    "I hope you think I’m being honest, because I’m lying."
  10. "To be completely honest with you…"

    "Now I’m really telling a whopper of a lie."
  11. "Let me give it to you straight…"

    "I’m lying to you and I hope you don’t notice."
  12. "No offense, but…"

    "Now I’m going to say something really offensive to you."
  13. "Don’t take this the wrong way, but…"

    "I’m going to offend you."
  14. "I don’t mean to be rude, but…"

    "This is going to be very rude."
  15. "Promise me you won’t get mad, but…"

    "You’re going to get really mad."
  16. "It’s really none of my business, but…"

    "I’m going to butt in to something that’s none of my business."
  17. "I don’t want to make you feel uncomfortable, but…"

    "I’m going to make you very uncomfortable."
  18. "Nothing personal!"

    "Of course it’s personal!"
  19. "Lighten up!"

    "I’ve insulted you and you can’t do anything about it."
  20. "Can’t you take a joke?"

    "I’m an asshole, but I’ll blame you instead."
  21. "Just kidding"

    "I get to say crap to you and you don’t get to feel insulted."
  22. "(Imagine an insulting thing here, like ‘You’re fat’) …but not in a bad way."

    "I just told you something insulting with a word that means something insulting that you should take in a bad way, but before you can take it in a bad way I’m going to tell you I don’t mean it in a bad way so you can’t get insulted."
  23. "I’m not saying… (imagine an insulting thing here, like ‘Your breath stinks’)"

    "I just said crap to you but even though you just heard me saying crap to you I’m immediately denying I said it."
  24. "I’m just being honest…"

    "I’m a lying, insulting sack of crap."
  25. "No, really, I haven’t stolen the phrases in this post from the writer Erin McKean…"

    "Yes I have stolen the phrases in this post from the writer Erin McKean."

Read Erin’s entire article about these phrases, termed "but-heads,"  "false fronts," "wishwashers," and "lying qualifiers:" I hate to tell you: Phrases that announce I’m lying, The Boston Globe>>

Tagged : / /

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *